Time and time again, I see talented individuals with immense potential hindered by their own self-limiting beliefs. Despite their enthusiasm, they rattle off countless reasons why they "can't" achieve success. Whether it's being a parent, lacking spousal support, or financial constraints, these reasons become roadblocks.

A little while later, I heard them announce that limbo was coming up. I was excited to impress her and show off just a little. I noticed she went to change skates for the limo, she went from in-lines to quads (four-wheel skates) We both got in line for the contest. It started with 30 kids and quickly narrowed down to just me and her. I am on the second bar to the bottom and I hit the bar and was out. She did the lowest bar and won and In the end, I lost. I was devastated, embarrassed and humiliated.

As an entrepreneur, I've faced my share of challenges, but none loomed larger than the fear of losing my home—a fear rooted deeply in my past.

When I was a little girl, my stepdad seemed like an ideal father figure. He was wonderful to my mom, my siblings, and me. We lived in a beautiful house, and he appeared every bit the perfect businessman—always in a suit, never drinking or smoking, nothing that was bad for his body. But beneath this façade, was something different, he was a heroin dealer, a figure straight out of "American Gangster."

I wanted an inground pool. All of the quotes I received were around 80,000 which I thought was pretty high. So, I thought, “why not try to build my own pool”, Despite knowing nothing about pools.

Although we were considerably competitive with each other, watching my older brother Scotty, growing up was nothing short of inspiring. Every Christmas, while other kids were enjoying their break, he was out there hustling, selling poinsettias from my dads greenhouse to every business in town. No sleeping in, no distractions—just pure, unwavering commitment to his goal.

When I began my adventure in flipping houses, I had no money, no credit, and almost no knowledge of real estate. It was an uphill battle from the start. I started with nothing but a burning desire to succeed.

Don't be afraid to be afraid. Trying new things is essential to keep life exciting and meaningful. As an entrepreneur, I thrive on the passion and fear that come with pursuing new ventures. If I'm not in over my head, I'm not happy. Fear isn't just an obstacle; it's a driving force.

One crucial habit I've adopted is the 24-hour rule. Whenever I'm faced with a big decision, I give myself a full day to sleep on it. This practice ensures that I make choices with a clear head, free from the immediate rush of fear or excitement.